I don’t see psychotherapy as an attempt to “fix” people. To me, therapy is a shared journey of understanding — understanding how our experiences, relationships, family, culture, emotions, body, and the ways we have learned to navigate the world over time have shaped who we are today.
Many of the patterns of thought, emotion, and behaviour that cause us distress today once made sense in the circumstances in which they developed. They may have helped us protect ourselves, cope with difficult situations, or meet important needs. The question is not whether these patterns were “wrong,” but whether they still serve us in the same way today.
Rather than trying to replace “wrong” thoughts with “right” ones, therapy begins with curiosity. We explore how certain patterns came to be, what purpose they may have served, and whether they continue to be helpful in your life now.
I also don’t see emotions such as anxiety, sadness, anger, or shame simply as problems to be eliminated. They often carry information: they may draw our attention to unmet needs, overlooked boundaries, unresolved conflicts, or parts of our lives that require greater care and attention.
My aim is not to provide ready-made answers, but to create a space in which you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself, your relationships, and your life story; become more flexible in responding to life’s challenges; and discover new possibilities for thinking, feeling, and acting. Change, in this sense, is not about moving towards a predetermined version of what it means to be “better,” but about finding ways of living that are more consistent with your own needs, values, and sense of self.
In my therapeutic work, I draw on insights from psychotherapy, cognitive science, and neuroscience. More important than any particular theory or technique, however, is my belief that every person has a unique story — and that therapy should take shape around that story.
Lasting change often begins when, instead of judging ourselves, we start to understand ourselves.